|    LIVING 
            AT A WAT OR MEDITATION CENTRE
 Greeting People
 Thai wat etiquette, which stems largely from the monk's 
            code of   discipline, forms the national ideal of polite 
            behavior in many ways.
 By following Thai customs, foreigners can show appreciation 
            to the   Thai people and ensure a welcome reception for 
            future visitors.   Gestures of respect also help to develop 
            kindness and sensitivity to   others. The anjali (wai 
            or pranom) of raising hands to the chest with   palms 
            together is used for (1) Greeting other people; (2) When   speaking 
            with a monk; (3) After offering something to an ordained   person; 
            and (4) Before receiving something from an ordained person.   (Laypeople 
            return the anjali but ordained people are not supposed to return 
            one from a layperson.) Thais address senior monks as Ajahn, other 
            monks as Tahn, novices as Nayn. The title can be used   by 
            itself or preceding the Pali name; it's impolite to use the Pali 
            name   without a title.
 
 Body Language
 Thais place great importance on body posture when around 
            monks,   especially if the monks are teaching Dhamma. 
            Laypeople stoop   slightly when walking past a seated 
            monk. If walking with a monk, they try to walk a little behind. 
            Laypeople never talk or listen to monks   from a higher 
            position; they sit or at least squat down before  addressing 
            a seated monk. When listening to a sermon or talking with a monk, 
            women usually sit in a "mermaid" posture; men more   often 
            sit with one leg crossed in front and the other tucked behind; the 
              kneeling position is polite for both sexes. Cross-legged 
            positions are   less polite and they're normally just 
            used in meditation. Avoid sitting   with arms clasped 
            around the raised knees (impolite). In a chair, sit erect and attentive. 
            Laypeople never sit on the asana (raised seat for monks and novices), 
            same seat or mat as a monk, or on a monk's  robes.
 
 Bowing
 Thais have many variations on the kraap (bowing), but 
            it's always   done 3 times in respect for the "Triple 
            Gem" of Buddha, Dhamma, and   Sangha. Follow the 
            example of Thai laypeople around you as to when  to bow; usually 
            one bows before being seated in a hall with  a Buddha image 
            or when meeting with a monk and again before getting up and leaving. 
            Bowing can be done as a meditation and   reflection on 
            each part of the Triple Gem. Bow slowly and mindfully,   bringing 
            the forehead all the way to the floor, keep buttocks on the   heels, 
            elbows near the knees, and thumbs near the eyebrows.
 
 Offering
 Giving of the monks' requisites develops respect and 
            generosity.   Thais traditionally bring flowers, candles, 
            and incense when they visit a wat, though any small gift is appreciated 
            by the monastic   community. Come up with head bowed in 
            a kneeling or squatting   position to within arms' reach 
            of the monk, then use both hands to   place an offering 
            into the monk's hands. Women must place items on a cloth laid in 
            front by the monk or have a layman pass them;   similarly, 
            men should respect women with shaved heads who may  not want 
            to receive or hand anything directly. Both men and women   place 
            food directly into the monk's bowl during pindabat. After   presenting 
            an offering, make the anjali. Offerings of money should be placed 
            in a donation book or given to a designated layperson.
 
  Other Important Customs(1) Women need to understand the monks' discipline of 
                not touching or being alone in a closed room with a woman. Women 
                should try to   avoid entering a library or other room 
                where this could happen.
 (2) Men and women sometimes sit in separate areas during 
                group   meetings; you can observe and follow the Thais 
                of the same gender.
 (3) Thais use feet for walking and standing, then tuck 
                them away at   other times; be especially careful never 
                to point out or stretch out one's feet in the direction of a Buddha 
                image or monk.
 (4) Shoes are   generally taken off before 
                entering a room with a Buddha image or in   any residence.
 (5) Sleeping pillows should only be used to rest the 
                  head -- considered sacred by the Thais and never for 
                sitting on.
 (6) Food and drink are consumed in a seated or squatting 
                position.
 (7) A bathing cloth must be worn when using outdoor bathing 
                areas,   common in rural areas (Thais are extremely modest).
 
 THAILAND PRACTICALITIES
 
 Food
 Thai food may take a bit of getting used to, as some 
                    dishes are  highly spiced. Generally you'll find the cuisine 
                    tasty and varied with   plenty of both spicy and nonspicy 
                    dishes to choose from. Meals have   white rice (sticky 
                    rice in the northeast) with meat, fish, vegetables, fruit,   and 
                    sweets. Food offered in remote forest monasteries tends to be   simpler 
                    and less varied, though is usually quite good. A few wats and   centres 
                    (mentioned in the individual descriptions) offer vegetarian food. 
                    Like the monks and nuns, lay visitors normally eat only between 
                      sunrise and mid-day. This rule of the Buddha's makes 
                    the monastic   community easy to support and contributes 
                    to moderation in eating. (If needed for medical reasons, food can 
                    also be taken after mid-day   at most places.)
 
 Clothing
 Thais always wear modest clothing that's clean and neat 
                    to a wat or   meditation centre. They avoid tight-fitting 
                    or bright-colored clothing that might be distracting to others. 
                    Shirts and blouses have sleeves.   Men wear long pants; 
                    women use skirts that come below the knees.   Some wats 
                    and centres ask that men wear white clothing and that   women 
                    wear either all white or a white blouse and black skirt. Clothing 
                      can occasionally be borrowed or you can outfit yourself 
                    in a local shop at low cost. Even when not required, the wearing 
                    of white serves   as a reminder that one is undertaking 
                    a spiritual life.
 
 Climate
 Thailand has 3 seasons, the cool from Nov. through Feb., 
                    hot from   March through June, and the rainy from July 
                    through October. (The  rainy season in the south lasts through 
                    January.) Pronounced   variations can occur from region 
                    to region and year to year. The   northeast has the most 
                    distinct seasons; lows can get down to 0-15 degrees C (32-59 degrees 
                    F) in the cool months; hot-season highs can exceed 40 degrees C 
                    (104 degrees F). The north has a similar   climate, but 
                    doesn't get as hot. Central Thailand stays warm to hot year-round. 
                    The south has a tropical climate; the region rarely sees   extremes 
                    of heat or cold. South and central Thailand have high   humidity, 
                    which decreases as one moves inland to the northern and   northeastern 
                    regions. Any season can be fine for a visit to Thailand --   just 
                    be prepared with warm clothes for the cool season in the north and 
                    northeast, umbrella or poncho for the rainy season, and light weight 
                    cotton clothing for the hot season. People from cool climates will 
                    have an easier time adjusting to the climate if they arrive in the  cool 
                    or rainy seasons.
 
 Health
 You're likely to stay healthy in Thailand, thanks to 
                    high standards of hygiene and medical care. Malaria does exist in 
                    some outlying   areas; current advice urges people to 
                    use netting and repellent from   dusk to dawn, when disease-carrying 
                    mosquitos bite, rather than rely   on preventative pills. 
                    The pills can have bad side effects; also, they   don't 
                    protect against all malaria strains. If you get an unexplained   fever, 
                    especially a recurrent one, obtain a blood test right away; a   doctor 
                    can then determine the most effective treatment.
 
 Getting There
 You can reach Thailand easily by air from most major 
                    cities in the world and by land from Malaysia and possibly from 
                    Laos. Sorting   through all the fares and restrictions 
                    of airlines can be difficult, so let a   good travel agent 
                    do the work for you. The best deals can often be   found 
                    in cities with large Asian populations; check ads in the Sunday 
                      travel section of newspapers of these cities. Discounted 
                    fares from   agents specializing in Asia can be hundreds 
                    of dollars less than the   cheapest fare the airline will 
                    quote directly. Carefully check restrictions   -- cheap 
                    (and some not so cheap) tickets won't be refundable and   generally 
                    don't allow route changes. Some roundtrip tickets allow
 only short visits of 45 days to 6 months; shop around 
                    for a one-year fare or just buy a one-way ticket if you might want 
                    to stay longer.   Bangkok travel agencies have great deals 
                    on international flights,   though be sure to stick to 
                    well-established agencies.
 
 Getting Around
 Thailand has a well-developed public transport system 
                    of train, bus, and air routes. Getting around is easier, more efficient, 
                    and less expensive than in most western and Asian countries. Taxis 
                    offer   good value too, though one often has to bargain. 
                    A little Thai helps a   lot with local transport. The 
                    Lonely Planet book Thailand; a travel   survival kit by 
                    Joe Cummings has good information on getting to and   around 
                    the country, as well as details on the sights and culture.
 
 Visas
 Check visa requirements before you come. Most people 
                    obtain a   Tourist Visa (good for 2 months and extendable 
                    one month more).   Longer-term visitors can try for a 
                    Non-Immigrant visa (good for at least 3 months and possibly extendable); 
                    a stay of more than 3 months can get complicated with various sponsorship 
                    letters required; ask advice in Thailand. Often it's easiest to 
                    zip down to the Thai Consulate in Penang, Malaysia, for a new 
                    visa, then return for another 3 months; this consulate issues Non-Immigrant 
                    visas more   easily than most if you have a good reason 
                    (such as meditation   practice).
 
 Language
 Ability to speak Thai will allow you to communicate 
                    directly with all of the teachers in Thailand, most of whom speak 
                    little or no English.   You'll also benefit from the many 
                    Dhamma talks in Thai available on   cassette recordings. 
                    The language has very simple grammar, so most of the effort in speaking 
                    Thai goes into learning vocabulary and   the all important 
                    5 tones. The written alphabet can be learned along   with 
                    the vocabulary or studied later. One or 2 months of intensive   language 
                    study will enable you to understand basic meditation   instructions 
                    and much of the material presented in Dhamma talks.   Bangkok 
                    has some good language schools.
 
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